Friends turn on you all of the time. Just get new friends. My friends start treating me like some sort of loner who doesn't do sht in life. I just left those son of a btches and never talked to them again.
I think this friend, is kinda an attention whore. I mean you were not being rude if CLEARLY her mom, dad, and grandma said "I'll fix it, it was already broken".
Now cleaning up after your mess, maybe you stained her silk bed sheets with ketchup? Hell, you were invited to stay the night. Not be a guest and stay for dinner or some important gathering. It's ok if you "screw" up here and there over the night. But I mean unless you took food out and left it on the table, no throw your trash out, maybe she has reasoning. But if you just left a bag of chips out or a bottle of coke, she shouldn't be overreacting.
Did you ever spend the night over at her house before? If so, how many times? I mean if this was your first time at her house, maybe it was just set up so she can get some drama in life. Treat you as some sort of rude person to always look down to.
Best thing to do is just get your point across, then try not to talk to her anymore. Tell her that the door was already broken, and the whole situation with the chips/sister was just playing around. Then if she still is acting like a btch, forget about her and move on.